This has been our most difficult and rewarding year yet. The more I get to know you and your amazing little personality, the more I adore you. You have challenged me and your Daddy this year more than I could have ever fathomed a toddler could, yet it has been so good for us all. I have been humbled continuously, especially when you embarrass me in public and it has shown me how much I care about what people think about me. I'm working on that kiddo so I can set a better example for you. You have shown me how your tantrums aren't that different from my tantrums, mine just aren't quite as obvious. You have toughened me up Charlie. I think the Lord knew I needed somebody to show me the ropes. Lucky for me, I got you!
At three years old you are curious, smart, thoughtful, loving, excitable, and FUN! The grin on your face makes everybody light up, but especially your mama. You LOVE motorcycles, cars, boats, tools, all creatures from the sea, jumping in puddles and playing outside. Your fave four people in the world are Della, Mama Mary, Papa Mark, and Mama Sue. Your Daddy comes in next and even though I'm not in that very top list, I know you have a special place for me in your heart when I get a hug after nap, a kiss and an "I love you Mom".
I love walking in and catching you kissing Della, sharing a snack with her or giving her a toy you love. You and your sister don't get along all he time but it is so clear that you adore her and she is so lucky to have you for a brother.
Yesterday I was reading Proverbs 15 and so many parts of it seemed applicable to you at the age of three, Charlie. Tomorrow, I will sit down with you and read the whole thing but here are some specific verses I pray you will hear.
Proverbs 15:13 A glad heart makes a cheerful face, but by sorrow of heart the spirit is crushed.
Proverbs 15:18 A hot-tempered man stirs up strife,but he who is slow to anger quiets contention.
Proverbs 15:33 The fear of the Lord is instruction in wisdom,and humility comes before honor.
Charlie, I love your cheerful face and your glad heart. I prayed when you were in my tummy that you would be a happy baby and the Lord blessed me with just that. I pray that you will be a happy toddler, adolescent, teenager and adult.
Thank you for the smiles you bring to my face. This has been the best three years! I love you buddy! I can't wait to see you grow!

